Mother is surprised to learn that her daughter is seeing her ex-husband, whom she has referred to as "dad" for more than 20 years

Mother is surprised to learn that her daughter is seeing her ex-husband, whom she has referred to as “dad” for more than 20 years

Bizarre Love Column

After learning that her husband and daughter are having a s3xual relationship, a mother of two has begged for guidance.

In a message that has since been removed from Mumsnet, the distraught mother requested assistance from other users. She raised questions about whether the relationship should be viewed as “moral incest” in this instance.

The mother shared her experience by saying that she had her first child at a young age and later married her ex-partner when her daughter was just 11 years old.

The man raised her daughter as his own, even though he never officially adopted her. According to the Daily Mail, she even adopted her stepfather’s last name and called him “dad” for more than 20 years.

Additionally, the daughter has a little kid of her own who calls him “Pappy”—as in grandfather—and she now has a daughter as well.

On every level, it simply feels so wrong, she wrote.

Although it’s not incest biologically, it feels like it from a moral standpoint. I’ve been unable to talk to them since since I’m in such complete shock.

Others on Mumsnet, horrified by her account, flocked to the distraught woman’s side to provide consolation while raising questions about the potential start date of the connection.

When he looked at her or gave her a childlike hug, one woman noted, “I would be wondering what he was feeling.”

Adding, “I would want to know exactly how and when it started and when he first became sexually attracted to her, another person said they would like to know. She’s likely been groomed, to be sure.

Others, however, advised that the woman exercise caution in case she is asked to provide support for her daughter.

“You must be in a bad mood. They replied, “I would remain cordial with her, impartial, and available to assist her.

Other women came forward less astonished to say that while this woman’s story is horrific, it is not an uncommon occurrence.

One woman admitted that she knew a man who abandoned his wife for her daughter after raising her as a stepdaughter since she was two years old.

 

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